Showing posts with label working mom. Show all posts
Showing posts with label working mom. Show all posts

Monday, September 29, 2014

MCM: Carlyn Henry Menser



The quote that immediately comes to mind when I think of Carlyn Menser is: "We are Blessed to be a Blessing."  God has blessed this women with such an incredible talent & drive in the real-estate field. She goes above and beyond for her friends and clients, and uses what God blessed her with to give back to the fullest.  Caryln is a top notch real estate agent at Anchor Realty Group, a dedicated wife to Jamey, and an amazing mother to her one year old son, Wyatt.

 What inspires you in your everyday life? 
A: Improvement and challenge.  I love to get better, know more, practice and go to bed tired. 

 Do you have any future goals that you are working towards?  
A:Professionally, I am in classes right now to get my Broker's license, in hopes that one day I will open my own office. 
Family goal: I am working on being as intentional as possible when Wyatt is awake, Jamey is home and we are  three together. Little distractions just taking in the short time he will be little. 

Weird goal:I would like to decorate my house for a holiday. I am not big on stuff and never really have time to be home so my goal is that our house would be decorated this year. HA Crazy goal I know.


XOXO,
TheeInspiredMommy




Monday, September 15, 2014

Mom Crush Monday - Tami Farrell



     Our Mom Crush Monday is dedicated to former Miss Teen USA/Miss California, and current Director/Writer/Producer, Tami Farrell. She is more than just a stunning Beauty Queen, and anyone who has come in contact with her will tell you that she is one of the most BEAUTIFUL souls they have ever met. Three facts about Tami that will inspire you. One, she has helped raise over 21 million dollars for charity when she was Miss Teen USA. That money went to various charities; however one charity that she was most inspired by was Sparrow Club. It is a charity that encourages kids to help kids with medical needs. They believe that kids will do heroic things when given heroic things to do. Two, Tami and her husband Buddy, own a production company called Blue Canoe Productions.  Three, she had a cancer scare in 2008 and had to have half of her thyroid removed.  If you think that any of this would slow her down...think again!


What motivates you to be a good mother?
When I was pregnant I realized I was given a very special gift. For once in my life God was trusting me to be apart of one of His miracles. He grew a beautiful, happy, healthy little boy inside me and has trusted my husband and I to help mold him into the person God created him to be. The moment I first saw Tucker I was overwhelmed with a love so intense that I had never experienced anything like it before. Everyday I fall more in love. God trusted me with this precious, happy, little giggle box and waking up every morning to his smiling face motivates me to be a good Mother. His heart, joy and playful spirit are a constant reminder of Gods love. I'm motivated by Gods grace. I was praying one day and thanking God for my son. I said to Him, "I love this boy with every part of me". In my heart I felt God say, "As much as you love your son, imagine now the kind of love I have for you my child".

What's the hardest part about being a mother?
The hardest part about being a Mom is living with your heart outside of your body. I never want him to hurt. I worry about him when I'm away from him. I miss him when I'm not with him. I think about all the what ifs. I use to be more impulsive but my thoughts are always now about how whatever I do will affect him.
On a lighter note, I hate being late and loading up a baby is a comical, all hands on deck kind of event. I've quickly learned I'm on his schedule and not my own. He doesn't care if I have a meeting across town or a last minute audition. If he wants the boob he gets the boob. :)

What inspires you to persevere in Hollywood?
I have always been a dreamer. When I was a little girl I'd roll out a sock and have my Barbie walk the redcarpet. When I'd hear a song on the radio I'd create a music video in my head. On road trips I'd watch people and create their story or stare into an open field and imagine the opening of a movie. I think that God puts dreams and desires in our hearts for a purpose. They are a roadmap to our life. I have always followed my heart and it has gotten me this far. I don't know what Gods plans are for me in this town but I am trusting him in this journey. When I write, direct, produce, host and act I feel at home. I think if you can live each day with joy you are where you need to be. My husband and I have struggled in the industry for almost ten years and are now seeing the fruits of our labor. We started a production company Blue Canoe Productions last year and have been blessed with amazing opportunities. Some months we lived on a dream and a prayer but God always provided. Now that we are parents we want to fulfill our dreams so we can give Tucker his.




Please click here to check out Tami's Production Company, Blue Canoe Productions.

XOXO,
TheeInspiredMommy

Friday, August 15, 2014

Working Mom vs. Stay at Home Mom



I recently got a side job doing commercial photography/videography that I absolutely love!  As I am taking a shower getting ready for my first day back on the job site my son Truitt decided to pull a "Magic Mike"and take all of his clothes off along with his poopy diaper.  By the time I got out of the shower there was poop smeared all over him, the pack and play and over the entire wall of my living room. I was calm on the outside but on the inside I was thinking holy %*&$.  Needless to say, when the sitter arrived I ran out the door faster than a lightning bolt  in excitement !  I  don't believe this makes anyone a bad mom to enjoy an activity outside of their children. In fact, I personally believe at the end of the day it makes me a better mom. I have an activity besides raising my children that makes me extremely satisfied .  When I get home to them I am beyond excited to hold them in my arms. Children are not a distraction from more important work; they are the most important work.  Me feeling happy and satisfied outside of my home makes me want to be a better mom and example to my children.  I personally believe its not the quantity of time you spend with your children; its the quality. Whether its getting a part time job or taking a photography or kick boxing class once a week, I think its important for mothers to have an activity that is just about them.  It saddens me to see the amount of judgement from both working mothers and stay at home mothers towards each other. Whether you are a working mom or a stay at home mom you have an EXTREMELY difficult job.  We should unite and  be strong and supportive of one another. The great controversy of working mom vs stay home moms is unnecessary because face it ladies at the end of the day we are all  hustlers with the same goal, and that goal is to make a great life and future for our children.  


PHOTO CREDIT: GREGORY PRUDEN



XOXO,
THEE INSPIRED MOMMY